More about me

Appearance
I have/had piercings besides the ears.
I want piercings besides the ears.
I have many scars.
I tan easily.
I wish my hair was a different color.
I have friends who have never seen my natural hair color.
I have/want a tattoo.
I can be self-conscious about my appearance.
I have/had braces.
I have more than two piercings.

Embarrassment
Disney movies still make me cry.
I’ve laughed so hard I’ve cried.
I’ve glued my hand to something.
I’ve laughed until some kind of beverage came out of my nose
I’ve had my pants rip in public.
I’ve touched something sharp/hot/etc to see if it would hurt.

Health
I’ve gotten stitches.
I’ve broken or dislocated a bone.
I’ve had my tonsils removed.
I’ve had my wisdom teeth removed.
I’ve had chicken pox.

Travel
I’ve been to Florida.
I’ve driven/ridden over 200 kilometers in one day.
I’ve been on a plane.
I’ve been to Colombia
I’ve been to Cuba.
I’ve been to Niagara Falls.
I’ve been to Ottawa
I’ve been to the Caribbean.
I’ve been to Europe.
Experiences
I’ve gotten lost in my city.
I’ve seen a shooting star.
I’ve wished on a shooting star.
I’ve seen a meteor shower.
I’ve gone out in public in my pajamas.
I’ve pushed all the buttons on an elevator.
I’ve slapped someone.
I’ve kissed someone underwater.
I’ve chugged something.
I’ve crashed a car.
I’ve been skiing.
I’ve been in a musical. 
I’ve auditioned for something.
I’ve been on stage.
I’ve caught a snowflake on my tongue.
I’ve sat on a rooftop at night.
I’ve pranked someone.
I’ve ridden in a taxi.

Honesty / Crime
I’ve been threatened to be arrested. 
I’ve broken a law.
I’ve done something I promised someone I wouldn’t.
I’ve done something I promised myself I wouldn’t.
I’ve sneaked out.
I’ve lied about my whereabouts.
I’ve cheated while playing a game.
I’ve been in a fist fight.
Death.
I’m afraid of dying.
I hate funerals.
I’ve seen someone/something die.
Someone close to me has attempted/committed suicide.
I have attempted suicide.
I’ve thought about suicide before.
I’ve written a eulogy for myself.

Materialism
I own over 5 rap CD’s.
I’m obsessed with anime/manga.
I collected comic books.
I own a lot of makeup.
I own something from Pac Sun.
I own something from The Gap.
I own something I got on E-Bay.
I own something from Abercrombie.
I thrive on compliments.
I thrive on hate.

Random
I can sing lowkey
I’ve stolen a tray from a fast food restaurant.
I open up to others easily.
I watch the news occasionally or always.
I don’t like to kill bugs.
I sing in the shower.
I’m a morning person.
I’m a sports fanatic.
I twirl my hair.
I care about grammar.
I love spam.
I’ve copied more than 30 CD’s in a day.
I bake well.
My favorite colour is either white, yellow, pink ,blue, red, black, purple, or orange.
I would wear pajamas to school.
I like Martha Stewart.
I laugh at my own jokes.
I eat fast food weekly.
I’ve not turned anything in and still got an A in a certain class.
I can’t sleep if there’s a spider in the room.
I’m really ticklish.
I like white chocolate.
I bite my nails.
I’m good at remembering names.
I’m good at remembering dates.
I have no idea what I want to do for the rest of my life.
People
..used ask if I was anorexic/bulimic.
..called me fat.
..say I’m skinny.
..have said I’m ugly.
..have said I’m pretty. 
..have spread rumors about me.
..force me to eat. 
..say I eat too much.
..say I eat too little.
Eating
I’ve lost weight.
I’ve gained weight.
I’m at my thinnest.
I’m at my biggest.
I’ve lost weight and kept it off.
I’ve lost weight, but gained it back.
My weight affects my mood. A lot.
I diet. 
I’m vegan/vegetarian.
I exercise.
I’ve fainted from exhaustion.
Family
I’ve sworn at my parents.
I’ve planned to run away from home before.
I’ve run away from home.
My biological parents are together.
I have a sibling less than one year old.
I want kids. (when older)
I’ve had kids.
I’ve lost a child.
Relationships
I’m engaged.
I’m married.
I’m a swinger.
I’ve gone on a blind date.
I have/had a friend with benefits.
I miss someone right now.
I have a fear of abandonment.
I’ve gotten divorced.
I’ve had feelings for someone who didn’t have them back.
Someone has/had feelings for me when I didn’t have them back.
I’ve told someone I loved them when I didn’t.
I’ve told someone I didn’t love them when I did.
I’ve kept something from a past relationship.

Sexuality
I’m a cuddler.
I’ve been kissed in the rain.
I’ve hugged a stranger.
I’ve kissed a stranger.
Bad times
I regularly drink.
I can’t swallow pills
I can swallow numerous pills at a time without difficulty.
I’ve been diagnosed with depression at some point.
I have/had anxiety problems.
I shut others out when I’m upset.
I don’t have anyone to talk to when I’m upset.
I have taken/take anti-depressants.
I’ve slept an entire day before.
I’ve plotted revenge.

this is probably the most i would ever reveal myself here.

i dont think i would ever do this again.

understanding

Early in the morning she wakes and brushes her hair.

With each careful stroke all she felt was just despair.

 

For years she felt empty, her heart was made of stone.

That's because her daddy passed and left her all alone.

 

No more genuine laughter and no more tears to shed.

No more warmth and softness as she crawls on back to bed.

 

 People thinks she lost her soul, she flushed it down the loo.

They soon forget that she was human and she had feelings too.

 

- tiara aquila

a friend of mine was my complete inspiration for this and all of this is true.

what she does not know is i completely understand the emptiness she goes through.

all i can do is just talk to her, and hope all goes well.

 

wish me luck.

In deep thought again

 

Before falling asleep last night, I started thinking about things.

How life is all about the choices a person makes. 

Sometimes, we realize the choice we made was bad.

I don't like dwelling on bad choices, it depresses me.

I'm not much of an optimist either. Perhaps i'm more of a realist.

I'm not sure about that either. 

Then i realize that in order to feel better about bad choices,

I either get along with my life or i just stop thinking about it.

Its not that hard to stop thinking about something,

you just get occupied and you'd eventually forget. Eventually.

 

apart from that i've been feeling nervous.

about what, i do not know yet. I'd find out soon, perhaps.

sigh

how can someone else say all the right things at once.

i feel wonderful because i see the love light in your eyes - Eric Clapton
i dont see that light anymore.

i see someone forced to stay.

insomnia

i try very hard not to use the word insomnia because i notice that people seem to find it as though it is an extremely cool and fancy word to use and it has been overused again and again.

but then again, i can't help but to use it if it is exactly what i'm going through. it has been a week without proper sleep and my eyebags gets worse and then comes along the mood that i am in.

all my life i always try to not say things too much because i do not want to annoy people with trivial things such as how is my day and how do i feel about a certain dress or shirt i bought. the less i say, the more people might feel comfortable around me. it was not that i was actually trying to fit in, no. i like being quiet. but there are those moments when i feel like blabbering out all that i really feel about things. sometimes, being quiet and aloof can be my undoing.

people can't seem to understand how i truly feel or what im thinking of when i look at them in a certain way. what is worse, people usually think that the things i say are to be taken lightly. the problem with me is my gestures aren't what people think to be normal. they misunderstand. 

but it really is not their fault, no. its mine. i have been so detached with this world till, so it seems, i am out of touch with the communication of the people around me. 

i feel like an awkward being.

i cant even prove the love of my life how much i love him.

waiting again

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To the person who wrote this secret, thank you, for your words are true.

Though all of us are different,

some mean, some kind.

Some unique and those who just blend into the surroundings, a wall flower.

We all need saving. 

We cannot live in this world alone, for it is not meant to be that way.

It is meant to be shared. 

Saving does not have to be something big,

It can be a small gesture, like giving a tissue to a sneezing girl.

It makes us remember, that in each of us there is a kindness.

And kindness is priceless., though you may not know it, it will go a long way.

with each day that has come to pass,

i promise that my love will last.

-Tiara Aquila